πŸ’ Two resources I think you'll love


Greetings from bonnie Scotland!

This week's edition is a little different from usual.

I've come across two things recently that changed how I plan my personal and professional lives, and I wanted to share them with you.

The first is a phenomenally insightful YouTube video by Daniel Pink.

At first, I was like "Urgh, New Year shizz, same old, same old", but I hit play and discovered the content was different from any other planning advice I've come across.

​It's 26 minutes of absolute gold dust.​

I've actually rewatched it a few times since it came out in January, which is very rare for me.

video preview​

All of the advice was insightful, but I really liked his "premortem" exercise.

This is where you imagine it to be the end of 2026, and the thing you said you wanted to do didn't happen.

You then work out what might have caused you to fail and work backwards to pre-empt the obstacles.

The video is fantastic and well worth a watch.

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The second is the book The 5 Types of Wealth by Sahil Bloom.

A friend who is always spot on with their literary recommendations left a voice note telling me about this book last week.

They'd just completed the 'baseline quiz' and wanted to thank me for being such a good friend.

Obviously, I was completely intrigued and went to check it out.

I assumed the book would be about financial literacy, but it's actually about creating a personal blueprint for a life full of meaning, connection, and joy.

You start by taking a short quiz to provide a baseline to measure your progress against as you balance and build your life.

I do love a good quiz, but my baseline score was a real eye-opener.

My Social Wealth and Mental Wealth scores were strong, and I knew my Physical Wealth score would be low, but I was taken aback by my Time Wealth score.

It turns out that while I thought I knew what my priorities were, and believed I was focusing on them, my answers suggested otherwise.

Now that I’ve established a baseline to start from, I’m working on defining my β€œLife Razor”.

A razor (as in Occam's razor) is a philosophical principle that allows you to shave away unnecessary choices or explanations so you can make clearer decisions.

I'm really enjoying the process of redesigning my life, and I think you'd love this book.


β˜• Espresso Shot

Let's take Daniel Pink's "premortem" idea and make it work for your VA business.

Enter your own numbers and context into this prompt, then paste it into your AI tool of choice

THE PROMPT

"Imagine it's the end of 2026. My VA business is under-booked β€” I have fewer than [X] clients, and my monthly revenue is below [Β£X]. I'm regularly working evenings and weekends despite wanting to keep to a 4-day work week. I've been running the business for [X] years and primarily serve [type of client].

Give me the 7 most likely reasons this has happened, ranked by probability. For each, suggest one specific, actionable fix I could start implementing this week β€” not theory, not "consider your mindset", but a concrete next step."

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That's it from me - have an awesome day!

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